The husband as the head of the home continues to be a hard sell here at the Citadel which is par for the course in a feminist-trained neo-pagan, neo-Barbarian culture. But we won’t go away quietly—in all actuality we’re just getting started. In all fairness, that’s only part of the response as many knowing in their hearts that this is the natural law are 100% behind us and calling for more. Don’t get me wrong, we love the comments, especially the dissenting views so that we know where to aim our discourse next in order to deliver truth and correct the errors that are dismantling families one by one.

A very common objection was repeated by a viewer yesterday and went something like this: “I know many women, through no fault of their own, are without a man in the household (widowed in some cases and in other cases abandoned-- i.e., the "man" was a total into-himself moron)… I suppose society is to blame for having created so many less-than-ideal men!” Another viewer echoes our sentiments of problems with men acting as juveniles well into their adult years playing video games while failing to tend to the family finances. We’ve definitely acknowledged that concern here and hope our efforts can do something to correct that.

But in lock-step feminist fashion, here we go again. The women are always right, and it’s all the husbands’ fault. The responsible wives have to tend to and take care of everything while the immature irresponsible men can’t handle it and can’t do anything right. It’s as though every conceivable objection is raised in order to deviate from God’s law. Regardless, we hold here that when God’s law is violated you will have problems. When there are 2 heads of the family, you will have a monster. When the wife leads the family, the husband will act as a child and in most cases will not hang around. Sorry ladies, that’s just the way men are. We’re hard-wired to lead wherever we are. You can’t change our composition.

But all this makes me wonder why ladies marry the men they marry to begin with. Why complain that your man is not a man when you picked him? Were these ladies forced to marry the bums they married? Probably not. In all fairness, they may have grown up in a household as the viewer says with no man in the house. He may have not been present, or he may have been an adult child in the home. But the training that was lived out by the growing girl was that the mom was the responsible party in the household so the young girl prepared herself to do the same thing. Couple that with the feminist education indoctrinating in the school system and you have a family philosophy completely juxtaposed to the plan of God. And as I say when you part from God’s way you have the natural consequences: 60%+ divorce rates or as is now, you just shack up and live like animals.

So does that mean arranged marriages are in order now? I wouldn’t go that far, but I do believe fathers should have an instrumental role in the choice of a spouse for their daughters. Having daughters of my own, I know this will be the case for them. My older daughter has already acknowledged this and will respect my input when and if it comes time for her. Incidentally she is 18 and has never dated and is not interested in doing so yet as she knows she is not yet ready to marry. She is a joy-filled free-spirited young lady without a concern in the world. This is a beautiful thing.

So I wonder also where is the influence of the fathers in the lives of their daughters, especially as the issue of contraception is so much in the mainstream media of late. The liberals have done a very effective job of promoting uncontrolled sexual activity with the promotion of sex education in the schools and unrestricted contraception. We all know that sexual activity outside of wedlock is a mortal sin but of course pagans who don’t believe in God couldn’t care less about sin anyway. But again sin has its natural effects. According to faithful Catholic gynecologist Dr. Kim Hardey, during sexual activity females release a hormone that dulls their sense of judgment of the man they are involved with. That’s a scientific fact. God in His almighty wisdom did this for married couples so that despite a husband’s imperfections (yes, we all have them), his wife would continue to love and respect him and cling to him. Naturally the chemical doesn’t differentiate between the female being married or not. So also the unmarried female being sexually active is also not able to clearly see her guy. This may well explain why women voluntarily marry men and vow their future lives to them who they later end up seeing as losers. Because once the chemical stops flowing and the blur is cleared she sees him for who he is.

Dads, we need to protect our daughters’ purity for the glory of God, but also for the protection of their lives here on earth. Moms, dads can’t influence the lives of their daughters if their daughters see them as just another kid in the house. And when the mom is leading the home, the daughters will bolt from it into the arms of a less than worthy lover at first chance—happens all the time. God bless you.