Christian life is for Love; Forgiveness and Mercy— not for rebellion1 and retaliation2.
1. Rebellion against God— for the difficult circumstances you are going through; because things are not going your way.
Rebellion against your Parents— because they don't love you enough or they don't understand you clearly or meet your needs.
Rebellion against your Spouse— for varied reasons.
Rebellion against the Church of God (by abandoning it)— because some things are contrary to your beliefs and understandings.
2. Retaliating against those who harm you and hurt you or ill treat you unjustly. A good Christian returns ill in Forgiveness.