Hi Alex A. So true, he's left with the question of what to do with his life now. There are many worthwhile and talented people who have been put out of work because of their failure to go along with the agenda and who were not involved in sins against purity. It is very difficult to know how to help any of these people, other than prayer.
For his own sanity, he might have been better off starting afresh in a new country. Why is he wasting his God given gifts on self-pity? Better to recognize his mistakes and 'move on'.
Well, this is a very lengthy, worldly piece. I'd say he and his paramour were wrong engage in sex outside of marriage. They must know the commandments. Sometimes God punishes people in this life.